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Offline bernice

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Pre-marital sex.. Is it good or bad?
« on: April 07, 2009, 07:31:11 AM »
What do you think about premarital sex?

FOR Catholic people (much better). And open for other religion/s also.

Actually, It's a sin right? Do you agree or not? Yes it's a sin talaga. Sex can wait 'til you are married. Oh yes, scientifically speaking it's a cure for stress.

If you are single you can just play any sport rather having sex. O kaya let's just put it this way. You had sex with the one you don't love tapos let's say you did enjoy it while having those crazy moans, and crazy desires...  the yummy thing or whatever. After you are sexually satisfied, do you feel you are also emotionally satisfied kaya? Diba you feel empty? Parang you feel so guilty afterwards? diring diri ka.. Sabi nila Masturbating is nakaka dry ng utak?? Yes, nakaka dry ng brain.





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Pre-marital sex.. Is it good or bad?
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Re: Pre-marital sex.. Is it good or bad?
« Reply #1 on: April 07, 2009, 07:34:39 AM »
This is an interesting subject.

The tradition from back home was no sex before marriage. And in older times that was not very hard to achieve. Because it was not easy for a man and a woman to have time and space available to engage in sex. Second there was fear of being caught because of unwanted pregnancy. Third there was fear of bringing shame to the whole family if caught. Fourth the marriage age was much younger than nowadays.

The degree of inhibition was enough for so many of youth to be able to control the desire. In spite of this there were some who did engage in pre marital sex. Females specially had to be Please read and comply to forum guidelines. Thank you. careful because there were not too many man willing to marry a non-virgin.
That was back in 1970 and more than 10,000 miles away. We live in new millennium.

Here the young ones grow up in the society where television, movies. Music are full of sexual exposure. Sexual explicit magazine, pornographic movies are freely available to the youth. And the internet has opened the door to pornographic material to virtually everyone. Regardless of the admonition against opposite sex, Asian youth is caught in dilemma as to what is right and what is wrong early on (starting from 12-14).

Of course they quickly realize how futile it would be to discuss such a delicate issue with the parents. So for most of them best way out is to live double life. In front of parents they sing are virtuous traditional children.

I hope not to shock Filipino Parents but more than 70 percent of our kids become sexually active before 19 years of age. Of course this is not base on any controlled study but more from personal experience.

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Re: Pre-marital sex.. Is it good or bad?
« Reply #2 on: April 07, 2009, 07:36:07 AM »
I think those guys here replying in this post are confuse whether it is right or wrong about having premarital sex... Actually, in the Commandments of GOD, sex should be done when you are already married, correct? Absolutely right. But the thing is once you committed it, are you really going to hell?? Now, that's a YES/NO answer to the Q! You know guys, GOD is a loving & merciful person, so if you commit sins such as having PREMARITALsex, confessed yourself unto him so that you will given mercy and your sin will be forgiven. Now, if you read this text/message, are you aware of what you will going to do? It's all on your decision my dear friends, a WILL that is given to you by GOD.


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Re: Pre-marital sex.. Is it good or bad?
« Reply #3 on: April 07, 2009, 07:37:24 AM »
The Bible calls premarital sex as Fornication which is a sexual intercourse between people who are not married to each other. Adultery or Concubinage, on the other hand, is a sexual intercourse outside the holy matrimony.

There are woman, who had liberated themselves from the restrains of society...for some, they had been a victim of physical and mental abuse.

There are those who still cling to it even nowadays...especially in some conservative society...but for post modern society, this issue had been the subject for most debates.

First, what constitutes Premarital Sex or Sexual Intercourse?

Second, how do we view people who engaged in Premarital SEX?

Third, are there love & respect to each people involved?

i guess, the answer to this question relies on how WE puts value on Virginity...and how do we define virginity in the deeper context.

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Re: Pre-marital sex.. Is it good or bad?
« Reply #4 on: April 07, 2009, 07:39:32 AM »
for me sex can be bad, if you think it is bad. and good if you think you did it for the good, so what your saying is na because of people telling people na you should do it before marriage doesnt mean it's right dba? si adam and eve pla? they had sex man. pero are they married? hnd dba? my point is sex is for everyone, pero i think you should do it with the one you love, the one na gsto mo mksama habang buhay, kse it's not only for the pleasure of sex, it's making a new life dba? making a family, reproducing. kse when you say sex is bad, so are you telling us na what our anccestors did unang panahon, kahit hnd sila kasal or tribo2 pa lng sila o wala silang kamalay2 so, sin pla un? depends lng man yan sa belief ng mga tao, if you think it's wrong then it's wrong, if you think it's right then it's right. depends on how you look up to it.
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Re: Pre-marital sex.. Is it good or bad?
« Reply #5 on: April 07, 2009, 07:41:11 AM »
PMS is sex before marriage, it is for men and women who have been in a very intimate relationship where they get so passionate with each other and get into it.

Passion and Intimacy always involves sex and is actually one of the main reason why a relationship would last.

You can't last a relationship by just being DUMB and NUMB! and a relationship wouldn't even develop and progress without even kissing, hugging and petting.

One of the reason of failed marriages is sexual incompatibility. That's why it's good thing to know that both of you are sexually compatible or not before deciding to get married.

i don't know just my opinion.


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Re: Pre-marital sex.. Is it good or bad?
« Reply #6 on: July 22, 2011, 04:19:54 PM »
Good


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« Reply #7 on: August 03, 2011, 02:59:28 PM »
this is a good topic of discussion..is it really good or bad? it's actually either..

It is GOODbecause you get to experience it before marriage..I mean, by doing such, you will get to be aware of its advantages and disadvantages so that you can share your experiences with others, not to arouse them or make them engage in this kind of activity, but because "you've been there"..

It is BAD because you will suffer the consequences of trying it out of wedlock..You get pregnant or you get someone "infanticipating"..Then everything follows..

On the other hand, in my opinion as an adult with some experiences in life, if we are going to look at it, is it really bad or not? My answer is not. Ok, so let's put it this way. Before, most of the streets in manila didn't have any overpass, underpass or even pedestrian lanes so people who wanted to go to the other side of the street would just cross the road in a risky manner. It was legal, or should i say, it was fine to do that during those times. Now that our country has made lots of innovations in our society, many over/underpasses and pedestrian lanes have sprouted already. If somebody crosses the street the "primitive way", you get fined for that because it is now illegal. There is even a sign "Bawal tumawid, nakamamatay!" Are you getting the point? This simply means that sex is bad because the church imposes that it is a bad practice. But before this was said, it was never bad actually. It is now bad because there is a "law" saying it is prohibited to non-married individuals doing it. What if there's no "law", would you still consider it bad? Would you even think it's bad when there was no one who started tagging it as "bad habit" before marriage? Well, your answer is the same as mine..


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Re: Pre-marital sex.. Is it good or bad?
« Reply #8 on: August 03, 2011, 03:12:14 PM »
this is a good topic of discussion..is it really good or bad? it's actually either..

It is GOODbecause you get to experience it before marriage..I mean, by doing such, you will get to be aware of its advantages and disadvantages so that you can share your experiences with others, not to arouse them or make them engage in this kind of activity, but because "you've been there"..

It is BAD because you will suffer the consequences of trying it out of wedlock..You get pregnant or you get someone "infanticipating"..Then everything follows..

On the other hand, in my opinion as an adult with some experiences in life, if we are going to look at it, is it really bad or not? My answer is not. Ok, so let's put it this way. Before, most of the streets in manila didn't have any overpass, underpass or even pedestrian lanes so people who wanted to go to the other side of the street would just cross the road in a risky manner. It was legal, or should i say, it was fine to do that during those times. Now that our country has made lots of innovations in our society, many over/underpasses and pedestrian lanes have sprouted already. If somebody crosses the street the "primitive way", you get fined for that because it is now illegal. There is even a sign "Bawal tumawid, nakamamatay!" Are you getting the point? This simply means that sex is bad because the church imposes that it is a bad practice. But before this was said, it was never bad actually. It is now bad because there is a "law" saying it is prohibited to non-married individuals doing it. What if there's no "law", would you still consider it bad? Would you even think it's bad when there was no one who started tagging it as "bad habit" before marriage? Well, your answer is the same as mine..
They consider it bad due to some religious beliefs.


 

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