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[punkyjam]

i am currently doing research and found out some questions about sexual intelligence? Meron ba talagang ganitong perception?

Can somebody elaborate me on this?

Thanks.

[PinoyNurse]

@punkyjam....
well as far as i know.. there is such a thing... it's part of psychology module where are mostly associated to sex and having a satisfying sexual life...

but to quote..

Sexual Intelligence is a set of skills that can be measured and quantified, and that help people to find a truly satisfying sex life. Our research has found that the key to a more satisfying sex life is to become more sexually intelligent. The higher people's sexual intelligence, the more sexual satisfaction they enjoy and the fewer sexual dysfunctions-such as difficulty achieving orgasm and erectile dysfunction--they suffer from.

[punkyjam]

ok given that definition....u mean we can really measure one's sexual intelligence?

my question now would be..What are the differences between sexually intelligent people and sexually unintelligent people?

[PinoyNurse]

Again... based on psychology.. sabi ..


Sexually intelligent people possess:

Scientific Knowledge: They have accurate scientific information about sexuality-for example, the physical and mental health benefits of an active sex life-and are able to put that knowledge into practice. ()

Insight into their Secret Sexual Selves: They know themselves, specifically what we call the Secret Sexual Self--the complex, inner landscape of our desires that includes both our genuine, healthy impulses and painful, destructive myths about sex that we've absorbed from our families, media messages, and our own painful experiences.

The Ability to Connect: Sexually intelligent people know how to how to talk to their partners about their sex life and have sexual empathy-They are able to imagine vividly the emotional effect of their behavior on their partner.

i think those who are sexually intelligent are those people who are happy with their marriage ... think about some couples..

i just don't know if this applies to gay people?

[obiwankenobi]

i guess sexual intelligence is if you know how to achieve what you want and what you need when it comes to popping the cherries and sharing an intergalactic orgasm with your gf.
just my two cents.

[punkyjam]

ok pero pag ba mataas  ang libido mo or sexual appetite mataas din ang sexual intelligence mo? does it follow?

[obiwankenobi]

hmm..personally, i can say na mataas libido ko. normal 'to kasi lalaki tayo. i cannot comment further sa sexual intelligence..nabigay na yung definition nun.. what i can say is, i am able to get what i want/need and pleasure my partner at the same time. in short, i always enjoy sex because i know what i want and i know how to do it.

[LAD]

i think @punkjam magkaiba yun...

why?

kasi lust can be natural to some extent... it's a given situation. whereas sexual intelligence is something measured... something which makes you sexually happy. di porket malibog ka e marami ka ng alam sa sex. dapat kasama na don e masatisfy mo partner mo...what if hindi mo kayang i control or iprovide yun? i think hindi ka nagiging intelligent sa ganung aspect.. check those who are having erectile dysfunction... mga taong hindi nagkakaanak at marami pa... dba?

just a thought po.